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Politeness in Social Relationships

Politeness in Social Relationships

Social relationships are one of the important things in human interaction to maintain that one's existence is maintained. This is very important because we cannot live alone. We need the presence of others in our lives. And, to keep the relationship harmonious, then we must be polite in every activity of our lives.

Being polite means applying the concept of politeness in our lives. By applying good manners in life, we hope to live life to the best of our ability and full of comfort. In every aspect and activity of life we ​​strive to perform our best.

In community activities, politeness is a set of rules that are not written but apply in general. Everyone, although not explicitly written, is aware that in every place there are their own rules. And, if we are polite to the maximum, then the community's response to us is very positive.

Remember the Javanese Proverb

In the Javanese language we know a proverb that sounds like the reputation of the tongue, the reputation of the body from the clothes. This saying is very much related to personal interaction in community life. Every Javanese understands the meaning of the proverb, although kia does not yet know how many are able to apply it in life.

Self -esteem of the tongue, meaning self -esteem depends on our tongue. In this we translate it as our manners in life. That our self -image depends on how we talk to others. This is the result of everyone's objective assessment of us.

If we speak politely, then our self -image can be boosted by itself. This is an equation versus straight. And, one of the important aspects of manners is how we speak. If the way we speak, the content of our speech is polite and courteous, then the community accepts with a comfortable heart. The people's comfort in responding to our talk shows that they are impressed with our talk.

The reputation of the body from clothing, means that our body is valuable because of the clothes we wear. If we always wear clothes that fit, according to the condition, then everyone will give a positive response. 

We need to know what kind of clothes for what activities. What color clothes for what condition. Wrong costume, clothing when attending an activity is very fatal. Of course it is very unethical if when attending someone's funeral we use party clothes.

Javanese proverbs do contain a lot of advice for the life of a civilized nation. If we are able to understand and apply it in life, then our existence is recognized by everyone and makes us an important figure in special activities.

If we delve into the Javanese proverb and apply it in our lives, then our life pattern will definitely be better. Be polite and good, then the community will give a good response for us.

Creating Healthy Communication

When we communicate with others, then at that time we are trying to give something positive to others. And, from what we give, we believe that there is something we get. This is a law of nature, whoever gives, will receive.

To be able to have conducive communication, then one of the most important things is how we behave when communicating. If our attitude is good, then communication can be smooth, but if our attitude is not good, communication can be stunted. And, good or healthy communication can be created if we are polite in communicating.

However, we realize that everyone wants to be noticed for their existence. At least they want to be 'people' in every community activity. For that, then we can do it politely when communicating.

Being polite means that we behave well when communicating. We must be able to place ourselves and position others according to their portions. We must not demean others. If possible, we should praise someone for following the conditions we want.

Yes. To create healthy communication, we only need one thing, be polite to everyone. And, it turns out that to keep life still exists is very easy, which is polite to others.

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