Are You An Introvert Or An Extrovert?

 

Networking requires people to be meeting many times and if needed travel together and market their products, isn’t it? While some might be big businessmen who have people doing everything for them and yet some starters do everything on their own, so shall we say the latter bundle of people are more of an extrovert nature than the big businessmen? 

Now it all depends on the way they deal with people, perhaps it might be that their position doesn’t allow them to directly deal with people; they might have had loads of hardships in their growing years. A person doesn’t become an extrovert, if he is a public speaker or running a huge global social network, Do you understand what I am trying to say here? 

Some people are comfortable in a fixed environment so they are comfortable in their speech or meeting new people only when they have support from older people around them.

I wonder sometimes in disguise, what category I belong to. And whether I am comfortable meeting up with new clients on my own or I need someone to introduce me to, to get comfortable speaking with them. 

That was one incident in my life when I nearly had a big question mark on my face when my best friend walked into my cabin and told me that I am an introvert, I was seriously baffled when he said that but later when I argued to tell me the incidences and situations, he had some serious points and incidences which reciprocated that.

I was an introvert. But I argued with him, that being a public speaker, meeting so many new people, and giving your speech on some argumentative matter is not a joke but marking all the things which I said a little in detail I noticed that actually, I was never in the picture while dealing with all the people. 

Everything was given ready-made, I had to just give my points and speak in front of the audience (who nearly didn’t have any options but to listen though) it took nearly a brave-hearted fellowmen and extroverted natured people to talk big talks in open and meeting the protesting gang of people. 

So it’s still a big question mark on my face? Unless, I went through some questionnaires, which gave me a little idea that I was of course not an extrovert.

I was a little saddened knowing all this, as I always treated myself as an extrovert and took pride in being one. Some things in life just happen even without us knowing it when they approached, created some results, and went flying on in the air but it has a deeper impact on our hearts, mind, and working approach. 

This particularly had a deep impact on me, though I have agreed to accept it without any arguments, I live as I was living earlier, it didn’t make me weak except that I feel a little down but I am raring to go and learn lessons so that I can be an extrovert. 

Although being an extrovert doesn’t mean you have a big business or a big organization with you, some people are the simplest, speak very little, and meet very few people who have built empires. 

Being an extrovert or an introvert is your own decision and it seriously cannot affect your business, if you are passionate about your work and have your work process in place.

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