How to be a True Friend

Although it’s most likely that you have gained some good friends over the years, it will still benefit you to brush up on your friendship skills. When you have close friends then you have someone who you can turn to when you’re feeling lonely, you need a listening ear or you have a special occasion and want someone to share it with.

 If you’ve ever had a true friend, then you will have noticed all the things that they did with you, for you, and on your behalf.

Whether you’re learning to be that kind of a friend yourself or you just want to polish up your “good friend” skills, these ideas will help you to establish positive, fulfilling friendships by becoming a true friend:

 1. Spend time together

Make time for your friend – do something fun together. Maybe you could have dinner together, go to a show or the gym, or just hang out. A good friend wants to be together and will make time in a busy schedule to do it. Be creative when you plan your activities and you’ll make some great memories. 

2. Support first

Truth, trust, and honesty are essential for a true friendship. However, there are times when providing emotional support is very important. If your friend is going through a tough time then they know that you’re there for him and that he can call you at any time.

3. Be a good listener

When you listen to your friend rather than offer feedback or suggestions, then you’re practicing one of the most important behaviors that a true friend can have.

4. Avoid giving criticism

If you offer criticism try to do it carefully, without offending. 

• Saying, “I might have done it another way” sounds less critical and more helpful than, “You should not have done it that way.”

5. Keep your friends’ affairs confidential

This is obvious but can sometimes be difficult to put into practice. You should not reveal anything about your friend to others who ask, even if one friend puts you on the spot regarding another. 

6. Honor your commitments

Don’t be late for appointments or miss them altogether. Be someone whom your friend can count on. When you’re dependable and predictable people will trust you and appreciate you. 

7. Do not dump all your life’s challenges onto your friends

It’s important to confide in yourself but don’t use them just for venting your own negative feelings and situations.

 • Balance your conversations so that you don’t strain the friendship with negative energy. For example, if you want to vent your frustrations with work, limit the time and then talk about something more fun. 

Being a true friend will bring you moments of joy, years of comfort, and decades of cherished memories. Implement these tips today to experience deeper relationships. Those you care about will think that you’re a true friend and you’ll feel like you’re the best friend ever! 

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